The archive
Earlier stories, kept here on purpose.
Read the Substack- Writing 2026-02-25
- Elementor Page #3360 2026-02-25
- Opt-out preferences 2026-02-02
- TrueVoice Tuesday: On Your Terms: 10.29.24 2024-10-28
- TrueVoice Tuesday: 10.15.24 2024-10-15
- TrueVoice Tuesday: 9.24.24 2024-09-23
- TrueVoice Tuesday: 9.17.24 2024-09-16
- TrueVoice Tuesday: 9.3.24 2024-09-03
- TrueVoice Tuesday: 8.27.24 2024-08-26
- TrueVoice Tuesday: 8.20.24 2024-08-19
- TrueVoice Tuesday: 8.6.24 2024-08-06
- On Tulips, Time, and Senior Night 2024-01-25
- Run Free, Aslan 2023-10-18
- Long Live Love ❤️ 2023-07-10
- Outsourced Career Responsibility 2023-03-05
- 10 Lessons I Learned During 75HARD 2023-02-12
- Coffee with Pops: Chapter Five 2023-02-11
- What’s Coming At Us This Week 2023-02-05
- Ways to Stay Safe and Small 2023-02-04
- Podcast: Why Does Human-First Matter? 2023-02-02
- Coffee with Pops: Chapter Four 2023-01-27
- What’s Your Watchword? 2023-01-25
- To Ponder: 2023-01-24
- Stop the Be Better Train 2023-01-23
- Create the conditions this week for: 2023-01-22
- Coffee with Pops: Chapter Three 2023-01-20
- A hard-knock client care and service lesson. 2023-01-19
- The Duality of Familiarity 2023-01-18
- Worth Chasing: 2023-01-17
- Keep Shuffling Your Slippers 2023-01-16
- Saturday’s Question: Are You Living in Alignment? 2023-01-14
- Coffee with Pops: Chapter Two 2023-01-13
- Surf or Shrivel? 2023-01-12
- What I Wish I’d Learned About Problem Solving in My 20’s 2023-01-11
- The Difference Between Correction and Connection 2023-01-10
- The Responsibility to Tell the Story 2023-01-09
- Happy + Fulfilled 2023-01-08
- Saturday’s Question: How Do I Get Clear? 2023-01-07
- Coffee With Pops: Chapter One 2023-01-06
- Make It Cool To Care 2023-01-05
- The Fact That We Love Opens Us Up To Pain 2023-01-03
- Intentions & Postures > Goals & Resolutions 2023-01-02
- An Interesting Life 2023-01-01
- Farewell, 2022. A Look Back, to Move Forward. 2022-12-31
- 75 Days 2022-10-17
- A slew of things I’m learning… 2022-09-28
- What should you stop doing immediately? 2022-09-23
- The Squids Squad: Giving High Schoolers the Keys + Responsibility 🦑 💕 2022-09-20
- What are you resisting? 2022-09-17
- “The only thing that happens on the back burner is…shit gets burned.” – Matt Read 2022-09-16
- To all you builders of… 2022-09-14
- The search for professional connection starts with the realization we’re already part of the great body of connective tissue. 2022-09-13
- 10 team / culture distinctions that seem to be what many desire these days. 2022-09-12
- Put aside the bills and pressure and responsibilities for a second. 2022-09-11
- Cheerleading or Constructive Criticism? 2022-09-10
- Let the Armor Down 2022-09-09
- Against Great Odds. 2022-09-08
- It’s likely not either/or, it’s probably both/and. 2022-09-07
- The Work Itself is the Reward 2022-09-06
- What Unnecessary Gear Are You Carrying? 2022-09-05
- The Disciplined Pursuit of Less 2022-09-04
- The First Here. The First to Fly. 2022-09-03
- Radical Responsibility VS. Defensive Deflection 2022-04-19
- A Few Prompts 2022-04-16
- I Used to Think, But Now I Think I Think… 2022-04-09
- Choosing To Stay Trapped 2022-04-03
- Why Not Us? Why Not Now? 2022-03-31
- Nitpick Hope Instead 2022-03-30
- Scanning for Bad News 2022-03-28
- Attitude in Adversity 2022-03-26
- 5 Years Sailing a Startup Sea 2022-03-25
- The One Skill I’d Tell An Intern To Learn 2022-03-24
- In Search of Solitude 2022-03-16
- 3 Unsuspecting C’s of Connection 2022-03-11
- 3 Components to Foster Misery 2022-03-10
- Bombarded with Doom and Despair 2022-03-08
- Gone Are The Days 2022-02-27
- 60 Minutes without the iPhone 2022-02-26
- The Listen First Leader 2022-02-25
- Pursuing Reality Reality instead of the Virtual Variety 2022-02-24
- You’re on Mute. Please Don’t Be. 2022-02-23
- A Virtuous Cycle 2022-02-22
- The Real Force of Resistance 2022-02-16
- On Ground Up Tennis Shoes, Cockroaches, and Radically Orienting Around Your Customers 2022-02-16
- Lesson from Sing 2: Guts. Stamina. Faith. 2022-02-13
- Saturday’s Question: Are You Sure? 2022-02-12
- A Mile of 🐷 💩 2022-02-11
- But What If It Works? 2022-02-03
- The Boring Basics 2022-01-31
- Saturday’s Question: Where Can You Take Radical Responsibility? 2022-01-29
- In Lieu of Flowers, We Sent a Story 2022-01-27
- Saturday’s Question: Can You Do It for a Day? 2022-01-22
- A Few Thoughts On Sales 2022-01-20
- How Your Enneagram Type Shovels Snow 2022-01-17
- From 0-18 in 5.4 Seconds 2022-01-16
- Ruled by the Riptide 2022-01-14
- Is This Really My Life? 2022-01-12
- A Story About My Friend Tod 2022-01-11
- MOM{IN}ENT 2022-01-09
- Consistency in the Prevailing Winds of Perfection 2022-01-07
- My Complicated Relationship with Alcohol 2022-01-05
- A Reminder for Marketers: It’s Not About You 2022-01-03
- Soundtrack – The Songs I Loved in 2021 2022-01-02
- Saturday’s Question: What Do You See? 2022-01-01
- Happy Nothing is New Year 2021-12-31
- The Whispers Within 2021-12-30
- 21 Things I’ll Take From 2021 2021-12-29
- What’s Your Clear + Compelling Vision for 2022? 2021-12-28
- On Being Contagious 2021-12-27
- On Shepherds and Sherpas 2021-12-23
- Don’t Be Daunted 2021-12-20
- Change Takes Place in the Dirt 2021-11-29
- The Promise of Pain 2021-10-22
- Chores, Coveralls, and The Carhartt Legacy Deluxe Work + Weekend Pack 2021-10-21
- Lead Role in a Cage 2021-10-20
- The Funny Thing About Fire 2021-10-19
- The Creation + Consumption Continuum 2021-10-18
- Get Them Into Their Emotion 2021-10-15
- A Little More Otherish 2021-10-14
- The Super Secret to Leadership 2021-10-13
- The Clutch of Kindness 2021-10-12
- Curiosity Leads to Clarity: 10 Questions to Help You Find It 2021-10-11
- Saturday’s Question: What’s Holding You Back? 2021-10-09
- Where Is Your Energy Flowing? 2021-10-07
- The Residue of Trust 2021-10-05
- The Tyranny of Today 2021-10-04
- Saturday’s Question: When Are You At Your Best? 2021-10-02
- End on a Make. 2021-10-01
- Don’t Give Your Pen Away 2021-09-24
- Continuous Expansion 2021-09-22
- Ask Him About the Land 2021-09-21
- Saturday’s Question: What’s Your Inside Voice? 2021-09-18
- Inspiration is an Illusion 2021-09-17
- The Climb 2021-09-16
- An Identity Crisis 2021-09-15
- What Will They Say? 2021-09-11
- 5 Ways I Attempt to Focus 2021-09-07
- What Are You Grateful For Today? 2021-09-04
- Step Out of the Shadows 2021-09-02
- Grounded Leaders Ask Questions 2021-08-31
- What Bullshit Do You (and I) Believe? 2021-08-28
- A Lesson I’m Learning On Kindness 2021-08-25
- The 10 Commitments We’ve Made 2021-08-24
- 10 Healthy Ear Food Meals 🎧 2021-08-08
- What if They Knew? 2021-08-07
- Play the Long Game 2021-08-02
- Saturday’s Question: Will You Show Up? 2021-07-31
- On Building a Team: Room to Rise 2021-07-20
- 10 Questions to Uncover Your Client’s Story 2021-07-19
- Running into the Rain 2021-07-18
- On Marketing: More Connecting, Less Convincing. 2021-07-15
- On Leadership: Careful What You Ask 2021-07-13
- The Haunting Simplicity of Your Word 2021-07-12
- Saturday’s Question: Is It Enough? 2021-07-10
- What Business Are You In? 2021-07-08
- Clear the Path 2021-07-05
- Saturday’s Question: Do You Have The Gumption? 2021-07-03
- Saturday’s Question: What Do You (Really) Want? 2021-06-26
- Open Up the Throttle 2021-06-25
- A Story About My Friends, Justin, Mitch, and Rex. 2021-06-24
- Stay Put, Like the Oak Tree 2021-06-14
- For the Ego or From the Heart? 2021-06-14
- Saturday’s Question: How Will You Handle the Storm? 2021-06-12
- Find the Trailhead 2021-06-11
- The Heart, at Work. 2021-06-10
- Saturday’s Question: What Would It Take For You? 2021-06-05
- The Irreplaceability of Humanity 2021-06-04
- Perform an Input Audit 2021-06-02
- Saturday’s Question: What Are You Afraid Of? 2021-05-29
- When You Fall off the Horse 2021-05-28
- 10 Ways to Create (Instead of Criticize) Company Culture 2021-05-23
- Saturday’s Question: What Story Are You Telling Yourself? 2021-05-22
- The War on Work 2021-05-19
- Saturday’s Question: Can You See? 2021-05-15
- Problems Pave the Possibilities 2021-05-12
- 10 Ways to Improve Your Writing 2021-05-10
- Tough as a Mother 2021-05-09
- Saturday’s Question: What Would Happen? 2021-05-08
- The Numbing of Our Dreams 2021-05-07
- Start Small. But Start. 2021-05-06
- Extraordinarily Decent 2021-05-05
- Tiny Steps Forward 2021-05-04
- When Passion + Promise + Purpose Collide 2021-05-03
- Saturday’s Question: Is It Time? ⏰ 2021-05-01
- A Podcast About Running Scared 2021-04-30
- The Long Lens 2021-04-29
- Curiosity Before Conclusions 2021-04-28
- The Secret Ingredient to Success 2021-04-27
- Drifting Towards Discipline 2021-04-26
- The Years Sail By 2021-04-24
- Monitor 2021-04-24
- Three Word Story 2021-04-23
- The Stewards of One of America’s Finest Stories 2021-04-22
- I Picked Up My iPhone 228 Times: A Shallow Reflection 2021-04-21
- The Craving of Connection 2021-04-20
- Climbing Trees + Chopping Wood 2021-04-19
- Where Will You Place the Dynamite? 2021-04-18
- The Possibility of Liberation 2021-04-17
- The Greatest Risk 2021-04-16
- A Story About My Friend, Darren Prenger 2021-04-16
- Are You a Thermostat or Thermometer? 2021-04-14
- Be Still. 2021-04-14
- Run Downhill, Alright? 2021-04-12
- 5 Ways to Dissolve the Defensiveness 2021-04-11
- You Can’t Outsource Approval 2021-04-10
- The Trappings of Mentality 2021-04-09
- It Is What It Is 2021-04-08
- Wiggle Room 2021-04-07
- Losing Your Way Somewhere Along the Way 2021-04-06
- 10 Marketing Mistakes You May Be Making 2021-04-05
- On Being Fired, Unraveling, and the Gift of Pain 2021-04-04
- The Cubicle You’re Living In 2021-04-03
- The Scared is Gone 2021-04-02
- A Story (and Podcast) About My Friend, Mike Farag 2021-04-01
- Your Identity ≠ Your Job 2021-03-31
- Listening is Hard 2021-03-30
- Monday’s Mantra 2021-03-29
- The 7 W’s of a Wonderfully Grounded Day 2021-03-28
- Compartmentalized + Disintegrated 2021-03-27
- Put On Your Hard Hat 2021-03-26
- A Story About My Friend Josh 2021-03-25
- The Treasure of Time 2021-03-24
- 5 Ways to Write Copy That Connects 2021-03-23
- Action > Analysis 2021-03-22
- Do You Want to be Right? Or Do You Want to be Free? 2021-03-21
- 10 Things I’m Grateful for as Guild Content Turns Four Years Old 2021-03-20
- Untethered. 2021-03-19
- Pain. Patience. Persistence. 2021-03-18
- More Questions. Fewer Answers. 2021-03-16
- Sing Your Song 🎶 2021-03-16
- The Antidote to Anxiety 2021-03-15
- Clarity Comes When You Face the Cowardice 2021-03-14
- Harmony > Balance 2021-03-13
- Will You Guide Me? 2021-03-11
- You’re Not an Imposter 2021-03-10
- Enjoy the Trip ✈️ 2021-03-09
- Story 2021-03-01
- Podcast 2021-03-01
- Personal 2021-03-01
- Marketing 2021-03-01
- Home 2021-03-01
- Business 2021-03-01
- Making Room So Something Beautiful Can Grow 2020-04-10
- The Craving of Certainty 2020-04-05
- The Battle For Morale: Reflections on a 40th Birthday Party & Being Over The Hill 2020-04-01
- 10 Ways To Put Fear In Its Place During A Pandemic 2020-03-23
- A Gentle Reminder to Wake Us Up 2020-03-21
- When Your First Baby Girl Turns 16… 2020-01-16
- The JV Race of Life 2019-09-23
- Finger Prickers, $12,000 Puppies and Beautiful Bravery 2019-05-12
- Try Again. A Little Less Needy This Time. 2019-05-03
- Slog Away At It. 2019-04-30
- When the Raccoon Falls From the Tree 2019-04-30
- TikTok You Don’t Stop 2019-04-22
- Spring Has Sprung 2019-04-21
- The Winds of Resistance 💨 2019-04-20
- Lurking in the Shadows 2019-04-18
- That’s Rich. 2019-04-17
- What Are You Running From? 2019-03-25
- The Strength to Look at the Struggle 2019-03-19
- Fear Dies When You Face It 2019-03-06
- Set the Secrets Free 2019-03-05
- The Art of Being Defensive 2019-03-04
- Kick Me and Wake Me Up 2019-02-28
- What Mary Poppins Told Me 2019-02-21
- Windmills, Whiteouts, Wind-chills, Whiskey & Wipeouts 2019-02-20
- The Tension Between Creating & Consuming 2019-02-01
- The Crippling Pursuit of Perfection 2019-01-31
- The Sabotage of Self-Protection 2019-01-24
- Make it Through 2019-01-22
- When the Rain Won’t Relent 2019-01-17
- What Will the Next 15 Years Bring? 2019-01-15
- Hustling My Way to Death 2019-01-11
- What If Everything’s Not OK? 2019-01-10
- The Path Forward Isn’t Always Straight 2019-01-08
- Finding Your Worth 2019-01-05
- Survival isn’t Living 2019-01-04
- Be Kind to Yourself in 2019 2018-12-28
- The Thrill of Hope 2018-12-24
- Not Sure How You Do It 2018-12-23
- Boatloads of Shame 2018-12-20
- Share Your Goodwill 2018-12-20
- Keep Going 2018-12-14
- Buried Alive 2018-12-14
- The Dirt is Better than the Platform 2018-12-13
- Crack in the Windshield 2018-12-12
- Gotta Get It Out 2018-12-11
- Are We All Just Using Each Other? 2018-12-09
- For Worse. Or Better. 2018-12-07
- Dirty Laundry & Dog Poop 2018-12-04
- When the Applause Isn’t Enough 2018-12-04
- The Sunday Shakes 2018-12-03
- Picking on a 14-Year-Old Referee 2018-12-02
- Let Your Symptoms Be Your Guide 2018-11-30
- Vulnerability is the Gateway 2018-11-30
- Give a Damn 2018-11-29
- We’re All Running Around, Trying to Get Picked 2018-11-27
- Like a Bruise 2018-11-26
- If You Want to Change, Live a New Story 2018-11-25
- What You Feed & Water, Grows. 2018-11-24
- Stuffed. But Thankful. 2018-11-24
- Mansions and Benzes 2018-11-21
- Only Perfect Love Casts Out Fear 2018-11-20
- Playing for High Stakes 2018-11-18
- When the Heart is Sick 2018-11-18
- Longing for Home 2018-11-16
- Snakes in the Basement 2018-11-15
- Maybe Your Fear Isn’t the Friend You Think It Is 2018-11-14
- It’s Time to Go 2018-11-13
- No One Is Fine 2018-11-12
- It Ain’t Easy. But Stay In It. 2018-11-11
- The Head and Heart Speak Different Languages 2018-11-08
- The Addiction I Didn’t Want to Face 2018-11-07
- How Cross Country Mocked Me 2018-11-06
- Flipping Hamburgers in a Fraternity and a Friend Named Clyde 2018-11-05
- You Can’t See the Opportunities from the Shore 2018-11-05
- Take Some Silver Linings Out of the Playbook 2018-11-03
- You Are The Heartbeat of This Team: A Reflection On A Brave Basketball Player 2018-11-02
- Halloween’s Over, It’s Safe to Take Off the Mask 2018-11-01
- Day 1 of 1,000 – A Story Untold is a Story Shamed 2018-10-31
- The Very Thing People Love You For is Killing You 2018-02-27
- Tattoos, Tears and 15 Years of Marriage 2018-01-11
- We’re All Trying to be OK 2018-01-08
- Hairspray on a Hamburger 2017-12-19
- Would You Stop Fighting For Something That’s Dying? 2017-12-12
- Are We Making a Mistake? 2016-07-16
- Do One Thing That Terrifies You Today 2016-06-28
- How My Lost Wedding Ring Reminded Me to Fight for My Marriage 2016-06-28
- Work the Field, Pray for Rain 2016-06-28
- What I Learned From a Great Uncle & Storyteller 2016-06-28
- Shut Up and Listen 2016-06-04
- The Story Door & Fighting For Things That Matter 2016-04-18
- We Need Each Other Like We Need Beefsteak 2016-04-12
- How Nervous Farts Showed Me I Need a Guide 2016-04-06
- Don’t Be An Ass 2016-03-25
- We’re Playing with House Money 2016-03-23
- 4 Ways to Combat the Disease of More 2016-02-29
- 6 Ways I’m Different After Having a Son 2016-02-22
- The Messy Mundane 2016-02-19
- What Kind of Story is Your Life Telling? 2016-02-17
- How to Keep Moving Forward 2016-02-16
- Together, We’re Better 2016-02-16
- Opposites Attract in Marriage 2016-02-14
- 12 Awesome Things About Having a 12 Year Old 2016-01-15
- What is Your One Word for 2016? Mine is Rich and It’s Not About Money. 2016-01-01
- Love is the Common Language 2015-12-27
- 10 Qualities That Will Serve My 10 Year Old Well 2015-12-23
- My Favorite Coach Pinkel Story: When I Interviewed Him About Parenting 2015-11-21
- Bookends: A Parent’s Journey From the Oldest to the Youngest 2015-11-18
- 7 Life Lessons I Want My Kids to Learn From Veterans 2015-11-12
- Pinky-Swears, World Series Crowns, and Our Town 2015-11-02
- A 5 1/2 Hour World Series Game With A 5 Year-Old 2015-10-28
- It’s Tough To Be a Man – Especially at 14 2015-10-20
- Playoff Baseball, White Castle and My Son 2015-10-15
- 5 People Who Are Living Not Drifting 2015-10-13
- 4 Roadblocks to Pursuing Our Dreams 2015-09-24
- Four Reminders for My Daughter After She Was Called Fat 2015-09-16
- Let’s Cheer FOR Each Other, Not Against 2015-09-13
- 10 Ways We Changed On Whole30 2015-09-02
- As Our Oldest Enters Middle School 2015-08-18
- Losing My Death Grip of the Little Years 2015-07-23
- 3 Surprising Lessons Learned from the Women’s World Cup 2015-07-07
- The Carousel Keeps Going Around 2015-06-30
- My Word is Stronger than Oak 2015-05-30
- Raise ’em Up 2015-05-21
- How I Screwed Up Brooke’s 1st Mother’s Day 2015-05-10
- Headgear, Horse-face and Withholding Encouragement 2015-05-02
- Pine Tar, George and Giving Cancer Hell 2015-04-23
- This Home Was Meant for a Family 2015-04-16
- Attaboy and Awkward High Fives 2015-04-07
- 11 Reasons I Quit Saying Brooke Doesn’t Work 2015-03-30
- Geronimo 2015-03-15
- Reclaim Networking 2015-03-07
- TGIF – But What About The Other Days? 2015-02-27
- Wrestling with Youth Sports: Where is the Joy? 2015-02-26
- Rewind Buttons & Broken Teeth 2015-02-19
- 8 Ways to Create Space 2015-02-12
- When The Dam Breaks 2015-02-03
- How To Break Your Child’s Spirit 2015-01-29
- What Happens When Fear Calls The Shots 2015-01-21
- Making 2015 The Year of Hope 2015-01-07
- It Won’t Kill You To Be Kind 2014-12-12
- Raising a Son: How Disappointments Led to Joy 2014-12-04
- What My Ten Year Old and a Tortoise Taught Me About Chasing Dreams 2014-11-21
- 7 Helpful After School Questions Besides “How Was Your Day?” 2014-11-14
- It’s a Great Day to Be Me & Other Lessons Learned From a Funeral 2014-11-06
- Thoughts on Leaving a Legacy and How Taylor Swift is Helping me Shake it Off 2014-10-28
- 5 Ways I Have Blown It as a Dad 2014-10-15
- New Friends from HuffPost Parents & GoodMenProject: Welcome 2014-10-04
- The NFL Has Great Guys Too 2014-09-28
- Six Workday Workouts 2014-09-26
- Your Son Doesn’t Need to “Just Suck It Up” 2014-09-23
- Reclaiming Meaning in the Things That Matter Most 2014-09-13
- Our Scars Tell Our Stories 2014-09-02
- 56 Questions to Ask During a Sales Cycle 2014-08-26
- Device Addiction: A Confession 2014-08-19
- Passivity Sucks. Initiate. 2014-08-12
- Giving Yourself Away 2014-08-05
- What Happens When You Get Punched in the Face? 2014-07-31
- Do I Matter? 2014-07-29
- How I Lost 21 Pounds in 13 Months 2014-07-24
- A Culture of Celebration 2014-07-22
- 14 Distinctions of a Loving Leader 2014-07-17
- How to Earn the Right to be Heard – 3 Practical Ways 2014-07-15
- 4 Helpful Questions as You Face a Huge Decision 2014-07-11
- Our Problem Isn’t a Lack of Information, It’s a Lack of Execution 2014-07-08
- Humility as Strength, Not Aww Shucks 2014-07-02
- Seven Questions to Ask When You’re Interviewing 2014-06-26
- Employees are not Commodities, They’re the Greatest Asset 2014-06-17
- Celebrating a Decade of Fathering Kamden 2014-06-12
- Money and Success Won’t Fix Your Problems 2014-05-16
- 10 Questions We Should Be Asking Our Teams 2014-05-13
- The Sales Process Isn’t About You 2014-05-08
- Love Will Win the Marathon in the Marketplace 2014-05-06
- Entitlement Issues in Your Culture 2014-04-30
- Empower Your Team 2014-04-24
- Genuine care for colleagues goes far beyond being nice 2014-04-22
- Are you Catholic? No, we’re crazy. 7 ideas that have helped me navigate work and home. 2014-04-17
- What if we reoriented the stereotypical sales process? 2014-04-15
- 5 ways to display love at the office – in appropriate ways of course 2014-04-08
- Nice guys don’t win 2014-04-07